You know the dog is keen to go where you’re going but he just won’t be able to handle it at all well!

Scooby-doo might look cute in ski goggles and holding onto ski-poles… but it just ain’t gonna happen in the real world.

The distinction between men and women starts from birth – our society generally is geared to making women focus on their emotions/feelings while making men focus on the practicality of providing for a family, working towards a career.

Typically, women are ‘taught’ to focus on their emotions, while men are taught to focus on their actions.

Break the chains.

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Ignorance is Bliss!

If you want a life of perpetual suffering – then Constant Awareness of your own feelings – and those of others.

If you want a life of complete and perfect spirituality then Constant ‘seperation’ from your feelings – merely observe them and let them pass – just like you are watching a fairly uninteresting tv show with ( human, earthly) you as the main character in ‘your’ life.

Let your body have them but don’t ‘identify’ with them!

That last one is what we find the hardest to put into everyday practice all the time – we become way too ‘involved’ with our own feelings for our own ‘good’.

I suspect that, in terms of total lifetime, Drew is going to be happier than you if things remain as they currently are.

Of course that is up for debate – like if he never sees something ‘important’ coming his way that his feelings might have told him about in time to reverse if he had had constant awareness, like you.

Those things tend to happen to men when they least expect them whereas they happen to women who’ve been expecting and anticipating and worrying about them for years and done little effectively to avoid.

Neither is a perfect way to live in my opinion.

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My guess is that men are just as emtional as women, but we be less willing to express ours, as least in American culture. Even that I am sure of.

But, he’s so sporadic that I don’t even pimp him here.