Who said Rihanna and Kanye SHOULD be role models?

I heard on the news last week that one of Rihanna’s corporate sponsors is considering dropping her as she’s being seen as an unfit “role model.”

When I heard this, I had to laugh. Not because of all the drama transpiring between Kanye and Rihanna, but because of the public outcry at their misbehavior.

Of course, this exchange of violence should not to be applauded or supported.

Of course, the whole story is being spread all over the news.

Of course, so many young men and women “look up” to these two stars, and are paying close attention to their actions.

Of course, the world is watching their private lives fall apart.

And of course, as they pursued careers as entertainers, they signed up for inordinate attention.

BUT, did they ask to be designated as today’s role models?

…or is this the unfortunate consequence of a culture that worships celebrities?

Why is it that if we ask a group of ten-year-olds who they want to be when they grow up, the “firemen and police officers and mommies and presidents and doctors” have given way to “movie stars and pop stars and TV stars?”

When did the celebrity become the new American hero?

Where are we?

  • Canada
  • England
  • Ireland
  • Korea
  • Japan
  • China
  • Ukraine
  • India
  • Thailand
  • Pakistan
  • Zimbabwe
  • Uganda
  • Mexico
  • New Guinea
  • Australia

I love our international seminary, and love the diversity of my friends here. I’ve always been fascinated by people who were different from me. I soak it up.

That’s one reason why I love our blogging community so much. I feel connected to the entire globe in one way or another!

So. Let’s connect. Where are you?

Me? Boston

Lessons learned from writing 25/100 songs

  • I’m not NEARLY as creative as I want to be.
  • I’m much more creative than I thought I was.
  • Loneliness sucks all the creative energy out of me.
  • If I don’t make myself write, I won’t.
  • If I wait for someone else to cheer me on, I won’t get anywhere.
  • As soon as I start sipping something warm, a song climbs out of my soul. I think I’ve found my muse.
  • Every time I finish one song I panic over what to write next. Every. Single. Time….
  • Rainy days are the breeding ground for creativity in my life.
  • Writing a song while someone else is in the house feels like trying on clothes in the middle of a dept store.
  • I’m happiest when I’m making music. Even if it’s bad.

These have all been tough but good lessons… Have you been learning any tough lessons lately?

Because I know some of you don’t like leaving comments (gasp)

Hey y’all.

Welcome new readers! Hello old readers!

This is just a friendly reminder to let y’all know that I LOVE hearing from you… I really do. Some of you are shy about leaving comments, but I just KNOW you have thoughtful insight to share with me. And I’d love to hear it.

If you’re feeling hesitant about throwing your thoughts out there for all the worldwideweb to see, you might be more comfortable with sending me an email. (Confess: I was a little freaked out by commenting when I first started reading blogs as well. It’s so… exposing.)

But I’ve got the perfect solution! It’s risk-free. And I’ve set it up just for you.

See the list by my header up there? (Front Page, About, etc.) There’s a little page up there that’s called “Contact” and it has a box that you can type in. When you hit “Submit,” it goes right to my email. Nobody else sees it.

So click up there and say “Hey.” You already know me but I might not know you, so go ahead and introduce yourself. And I might even email you back!

(Or if you wanna get REAL crazy, you can leave a wild and wacky message in the comments below – like all the rest of us weirdos!)

Thanks for stopping by today,

mandy