that’s what my man does. he reads to me. just because he wants to… we snuggle on the couch or i curl up beside him under the covers and he reads to me.
we just started with Tom Sawyer. it makes me laugh, how he does all the voices. and he’s a master at mimicking the old-timey southern accent, even though i’m the “ree-uhl thang” when it comes to “suthurn” accents!
since we both have such different personalities and interests, we’ve struggled to find ways to “play” together. we’ve tried hiking (but i’m a wimp). we’ve tried the beach (but he doesn’t live for a tan). we’ve talked about trying camping (but, well, i always seem to find an excuse not to go! last time it was bears, and that’s a legitimate concern in my eyes – not just some silly excuse). we’ve tried running together (i can’t seem to get my knees/shins to endure more than 1/2 mile). we never tried doing music together (but, as i said yesterday, he plays a mean nose flute)! we briefly talked about concerts (but he’d rather have his eyelashes plucked out).
anyway, you get the picture… the only remaining options were watching movies and eating out, one rules out conversation and the other rules out our savings!
but, since we were married 4 1/2 years ago, we’ve been determined to find a way to play… our pre-marital counselor told us that healthy marriages have shared recreational experiences – they play together. and we’ve never forgotten it. we trust this man, we think he’s right, and we wanna stay together…
so, he loves to read and i love to laugh, “wa-la!” = he reads funny stuff to me. it works for us and works for our marriage!
how do the two of you play together – enjoy each others company?
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