“She’s going to beat you senseless.”

It’s date night, and in a surprising twist, Drew and I are both reading. The timer set for 15 minute increments. And when the Model-T’s “Oogaa Oogaaahhhh!!” blows on his iTouch, I laugh, demand that he change the alarm-tone, get over it, and begin a few minutes of sharing what we’ve read so far.

This whole Reading-During-Date-Night-Thing is a bit out of our normal routine, but it’s working for two reasons: 1) we are fostering communication and curiosity and compassion for one another using “Hey, tell me about what you’re reading” as the backdrop, and 2) I just dove into Mandy Steward’s latest book.

So when the Oogaaa sounds, I get to hear about Dragons and Fortune-Tellers (or something like that), and then I tell him about “Tomorrow’s Dreams Today.” And my reports to Drew go a little like this:

p. 8: I won’t spoil the story, but you need to know that when I read through this page, I got uncharacteristically teary. Then the second time I read it I couldn’t help but laugh. So Drew and I laughed. Then flowed the honesty about how it rubbed up against a recent dream-dying day I’d experienced. Beautifully, the Author-Mandy won’t let me sit in my dead dream. She says I have to figure it out. Flesh it out. Live it out. Drew said he liked “this girl” and how she thinks.

p. 14: After marking this page up and down with my own scribbles and underlines, I review things with Drew. We’ve reached her thesis concept, her aim to show us how she lives out her artist-dream in her present day realities. It shakes me. And he wants to know “what is this book about? Is it a memoir? Is it a story? What is it?” I used words like Artist and Faith and Journey and Parenthood and Responsibilities and Creativity but they didn’t feel complete. So I flipped ahead for future pages that would show where she was taking me (don’t tell Mandy). And I read some of the section titles and quotes and questions… And I felt words like Right Now and Plan and Challenge and No Excuses rise up. Oh boy. And that’s when Drew, with an ironic thrill in his voice, said she’s gonna beat me senseless. And yes I did that throw-my-head-back laughing, and resolved to tell you about the first 15 pages of what is becoming my new favorite book.

So I type all that out and then that dang Ooogaahhh starts up again and I read this post to him. And then hear more about the Dragons.

Enough typing. I need to get back to the dream-reading and question-answering and plan-making. And for my people, the artist/creative/dreamer types? Y’all might wanna do your dream a favor and read this book. And please do tell me what you think of p. 8, mkay?

Grab it here.

How to Speak the Spammers’ Language

Great “post” right back atcha, Latoya. Too bad your comment was eaten by the spaminator, prevneting Moweezles chance to reply. The conversation wouldve been exciting to watch–impressive even. Like Mo!

Thanks for taking the time to comment, Namari. :) To answer your question, I hope we’re Having Fun Yet around here. Not sure if I can take cerdit. I give ll the recognition to my lovley commenters, just same as you.

this is an amazign request, swete spammer-commenter. if you could leave an accurate weblog url, i would be happy to check out your site. if i think your content is a fit for my style, i’ll write something equally odd, but full of capital letters. Just. For. You.

Inspiring! “Subject and predicates,” you are undoubtedly my favorite spammer. Your grammar is accurate, which (judging by your name) shows consistency and effort. I want to thank you for offering help. I would definitely refer Tam Hodge to you. Tam has been blogging as long as I have, and I’d be the first to admit that I have obvious grammar deficiencies, but Tam is still leans towards anti-capitalism at times. So, my dear spammer, please stop by her blog and tell her that Mandy sent you. She’ll LOVE it!

Steve Jobs’ team hasn’t released Artificial Intelligence into the mainstream technological culture yet. So, until those people at AAPL make it happen, you’re stuck with tignhs men think up. IJWTS: Good luck with that one, robo-buddy.

So, back to you, real readers. The whole point (there’s always a point) of this blog is that I want y’all to know I read all the comments. All of ‘em. And I even go digging for those buried in spam. Thank you for commenting. And reading. And all of it.

And I have a question for all of you: How long have you been hanging out around this blog?

What’s next? Four-A-Days

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They say a picture is worth a thousand words, so I’m hoping to pack each day next week with at least 4,000 “words.”

I can’t say some of the pictures won’t have words in them. Just that they will all be pictures.

Next week.

…Get ready.

Now, on to more important matters: What are you up to on this post-Mother’s-Day weekend? Any fun plans??

What’s your ether? Here’s how you can find out.

What’s your substance–at your core? What’s the quintessence of who you are? This is a question Randy asked us during Recreate last week and it’s echoed in my brain every since then… Geeze, this is a question I’ve been asking myself in various forms for a few years now, and I’d bet that y’all are tired of hearing me talk seeing me type about it. (And you probably won’t much anymore. I’m done asking. I’ve got my answer. And all the permission I need.)

But, I believe it’s a question worth asking. And then worth asking again. Because, in order to be the best “you” that you can be, you’ve gotta know who you are. Yes, some things in life are all about you. Does that sound self-serving? Let me rephrase it:

We cannot steward the gifts God has given us unless we know and embrace how He’s made us.

Read that again: We cannot steward the gifts God has given us unless we know and embrace how He’s made us.

Do you hear me? Do you know and embrace how He’s made you?

That’s why I’m asking you to fill in the blank “I am _________.”  Sure, each of you can fill in that blank. But there’s a risk. There’s a putting-ourselves-out-there that has to happen as well. Part of embracing our identity is in the willingness to stand up in front of others and say “Hi, my name is _______, and I am _________.”

And we all say with a smile: “Hi ________.”

There is power in that moment.

So I don’t care a lick (sassy country-talk here, because I’m getting fired up) if you send me a picture or a video or whatever that fills in your blank. I just want to give you a safe risk-free excuse to begin the embracing.

And, by next Tuesday, we’ll know how well we know and embrace ourselves.

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