Do we hold back what was never ours to keep?

When was the last time someone just gave you something, because they had it to give and they wanted you to have it? It could’ve been your kid’s cookie, soggy but still sweet. It could’ve been tickets to a concert. Or a work of art.

When was the last time you gave something to someone out of the goodness of your heart and the overflow of your life?

I’m not a giver. Well, not in the traditional sense. I give time, although I am rather greedy with mine. I budget it carefully. And it goes out, in various stages, to various people and places. But I want to give more. I want to give out of other areas of my life as well.

So I’m asking myself what I have to give. And I’m trying to be really really honest.

One thing that has recently resurfaced is “my story”–in a few surprising forms. But people are poking around in my life in search of answers in their own lives. I may not have all the answers, but I do have my own experience. So I am giving that.

But what else? What else have I been given in surplus so I can give it to someone else? That is the question I have devoted to today. But not just for me. For you too.

What do you have to give? Be honest. Be real. Toss “humility” out the window, because that’s not what this is about. This is about locating the things of value in your life that are there for the sake of someone else. What’s there? What do you have to give?

WW – christmas – 7.9.08

happy whatever wednesday day

kristiapplesauce, in her infinite goofiness, closed last week by asking: Are you already thinking about Christmas? If not, when do you start thinking about it?

ok. if y’all wanna know the truth, i think she’s asking because she thinks about Christmas year round. and probably because she already has my Christmas present picked out and is trying to send me some subliminal messages to get her Christmas present wrapped tightly with a bow as well. some people. anyway, what was the question? oh yeah… am i “already thinking about Christmas?” yes. thanks for bringing it up BEFORE THE FOURTH OF JULY, crazy kristi. “if not, when do you start thinking about it?” well, if you hadn’t already brought it up, i’d probably get around to thinking about it sometime in early fall, because the insanity of the commercially-driven culture we live in will begin to shower us with hints of Christmas. ugh. bah humbug. i’m just sayin. so, for our secret question: what do you want for Christmas? good luck trying to figure out a SECRET way to sneak it into your comment down there. SECRET. remember? don’t say “hey mandy, i want a wii.” no, that will not work. you’ll blow our cover-it’s gotta be smooth. covert. secret. ok? ok.

starter question: what do you want for Christmas? ;)

so. what you do is answer the last question in the comments and leave a question for the next person to answer, and they will leave a question for the next person to answer.

ok?

YAY! happy wednesday!!!

WHATEVER WEDNESDAY 10.10.07

hello again friends!

i’m so so so so so so proud of all of you for beautifully following the instructions this week! i don’t think we missed a single question throughout the day.

:)

everyone gets a free cookie for that!

last question was from ang, which was so perfect since i’ve been on a marriage kick this week: What was the best surprise gift? my engagement ring. hands down the best gift. i’d been hoping and praying (for like 4 months) that he’d wanna marry me…

my starter question: tell us about your favorite date!

now, remember the rules: answer the last remaining question, and then leave a question for the next person. :)

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